Saturday, April 8, 2023

Don't mention the 'R' word

By Virginia Winder

To steal a phrase and then bastardise it, “the reports of my retirement are greatly exaggerated”.

I found out in the past week that I’m supposedly retiring.

Using the syntax of Yoda: “A mystery to me, the rumour is.”

I’m not certain where that claim from, but I have no plans to retire. Ever.

When friends and family mention the “r” word, I always state my intention to keep writing and working.

There are plenty of people in my life who’ve always carried on.

Jim is always on the go
My journalism role model is Jim Tucker, who not only writes a regular column for the Taranaki Daily News, he’s also the author of books about people’s lives, including his own. Not only is he working on his memoir, he’s also published a book of his columns called Random Thoughts. The proceeds from sales went to Hospice Taranaki.

Jim is way more than a decade older than me and has no intention of putting down his pen – or stopping. He’s just been working on the Census. When I taught with him on the journalism course at the then-Taranaki Polytech, I nicknamed him Action Man. More than 20 years on he still embodies that name.

Rob in his home office
Then there’s photojournalist Rob Tucker, Jim’s younger brother, who could also wear that superhero tag, although he’s no sidekick or sequel.

When faced with a diagnosis of terminal cancer, Rob turned his focus on helping others.

Calling on his “brotherhood” of New Zealand photojournalists, Rob inspired a charity auction of more than 120 images, some iconic, to raise money for Hospice Taranaki. That auction, held on September 24, 2022, raised about $150,000 for the cash-strapped palliative care organisation.

Barbara and granddog Luna
Another star is my mother-in-law Barbara Smart, who was a long-time legal executive at Reeves Middleton Young (now Connect Legal Taranaki) until she retired in her late 70s. 

Last year, she worked on the local body elections. Each Friday morning, she helps prepare breakfast at a local school, and she also does volunteer work at Hospice Taranaki. 

There’s much more, including always being there for family, but what I’m saying, is Barbara has never stopped to let the dust gather.

Elizabeth on her deck
My greatest writing inspiration is Elizabeth Smither, now in her early 80s, who is still an enchanting witch of words.

From her caldron comes a spell-binding catalogue of work – six novels, six collections of short stories, one commonplace book, a collection of journal writings, and 19 poetry books, including My American Chair, released in 2022.

In 2018, her collection, Night Horse, won the Ockham NZ Book Award for Poetry. She was named Te Mata Estate poet laureate in 2001 and, in 2004, became a Member of the New Zealand Order of Merit and an Honorary Doctor of Literature from Auckland University.

Elizabeth has no plans to retire.

Beside my desk, I’ve pinned motivating quotes from Elizabeth gleaned from our interviews.

Here’s one: “A writer always writes. You often don’t know what you think until you write it down. The act of writing opens the subconscious. It teaches you to link… It’s like a river. If you keep feeding it, it will start working inside you and bring up ideas.”

"Daisy" Lean 
I’ve also got quotes from two men, also dear to my heart.

“There is no end to what you can achieve if you don’t mind who gets the credit.” – David Lean, former NP Mayor and long-time TRC representative.

Lynn in his garden

“I think you just need to keep active and engaged in the community and do what you can do. I think you owe the community whatever talents you’ve got.” – Lynn Bublitz, educationalist, gardener and civic leader.

Lynn’s words are a touchstone for me because I love this community, including every person named in this blog post.

Irena on the garden
trail in Hawera
The untrue “retiring” rumour may stem from a story Live magazine editor Irena Brooks asked me to write on my 40 years of journalism. It's in the latest edition.

The story ends like this: 

Being humble is huge for me (it was a struggle to write this story) because one of my mantras is: “The day I think I’m more important than the people I interview, is the day I should get out of journalism.”

I guess I’m in it for the long haul.